The last week of April was busy for us. During the week, the Area Presidency hosted a conference for the Area Seventy. Elder Shipley had a special opportunity of sitting in on the conference. I was in charge of getting snacks for break time and ran back and forth between our apartment and the office many times that day. Saturday evening we had a dinner for the Seventy and their wives at Elder Cardon's home. There I was able to meet these special men and their wives. The church has been in Africa for 30 years and some of these men were early converts, others had been converts for only 10-15 years. All have great minds and countenences filled with light. They spent the day discussing the future direction of the church in Africa...of building from centers of strength.

Front Row: (L-R) Elder and Sister Cardon, President and Sr. Snow, Sr Golden and Elder Golden
Second Row: Sr. Nwankpa, Sr. Dil, Sr. Ounlue and President Ounlue, Sr. Brockbank and President Brockbank, Sr. Garff and President Garff
3rd Row: President Nwankpa, President Dil, President Harmon and Sr. Harmon, Sr. Evans and President Evans
Top Row: President and Sr. Dyreng, Sr. Satati and President Satati, Sr. Squires and President Squires
On Monday the 28th we hosted a 3-day conference for the 10 mission presidents in West Africa. Elder Shipley and I both attended this conference. Presentations were made on internalizing the gospel rather than just learning or knowing it. Coming to experience the atonement in our lives, that our testimonies become immoveable. How? Well the basics: read the scriptures daily, pray, ponder, live the word, repent and attend the temple. This journey can not be done for you, it is an individual journey to Christ. It is a journey that we have the opportunity to choose everyday or not.
Another subject was again the future direction of the church in Africa: Building Centers of Strength. The google mapping that I was asked to do was the center of this presentation.
A seperate section was held with the women. The six mission president's wives who were being released in July shared the things they learned being a Mission Mom. All said they gained an extra amount of love for the missionaries...that in essense they became their sons and daughters and loved them as much as their own children. They agreed the spirit led them while giving talks and dealing with health problems the missionaries had. There are no specific duties for the mission president's wife..and many expressed the frustration of trying to discover their role.
The last day we again talked about how the missionary work should change based on the things that had been discussed. The mission presidents who leave at the end of June were told that they must make the changes before they leave because the new presidents would take months to make the changes they could make in weeks. In the afternoon we attended a sealing session in the temple. The group was divided among the two sealing rooms and Elder Golden and President Snow conducted the sealings. It was a special experience. After that, we assembled in the Area building and were able to participate in a testimony session. It was a spiritual experience for all. These sessions were great learning experiences for us. Our feelings about how the Church should be administered will never be the same.
To top off the week we attended the Tema Stake Conference. This was a two day event. On Saturday we were invited by President Snow to attend the leadership meeting. He said he was going to take a new approach to leadership training and wanted us to view it. He had all the ward councils sit in ward groups. His training premise was that everyone in the councils was there to help the bishop in his task, which was described as helping people come back to the Father by following the Son. He told them they were all doing the work of the Priesthood. Some may be in charge of the children, some of the young women, some of the Relief Society, some on the non-members within the ward boundaries, but their primary job was to help the bishop in his job. He said that although we need the church to help us with the ordinances, the real work of helping people become born again was likely to best be done in homes. He challenged them to change their thinking about running church "programs." He said the programs were not that important, only changing lives was. They must change their ministry to helping people come back to the Father. Again, there was a great spirit present and thoughts and approaches changed.
We decided to drive back along the ocean from Tema to Accra. We had never been on the road before, and did some exploration in finding it. It took about 10 times as long as the Tema expressway would have taken, but it was a real experience. I (dad typing) ran into a pot hole that almost swallowed up the car. We came close to blowing a tire and we lost a hub cap, although we didn't learn that until about 15 minutes after it happened when a tro tro pulled up beside us and the driver honked his horn. He rolled down his window and handed us our hubcap. I guess I'll have to change my perspective on these drivers who normally cut you off on the highway, honk if you're a minisecond late in moving after a light turns green and generally ignore all traffic lights and signs. Some of them are actually nice people.
On Sunday, we again started for Tema. Not having been at a Stake Conference here, we didn't know exactly what to expect. We arrived 20 minutes early to find only about 20 seats left in the very rear of the building. It was truly a center of strength. The missionaries had displays set up outside the building. People had come in buses. There were over 1600 people who attended the Tema Stake Conerence. What a wonderful experience to see with our own eyes such strength. The meeting was conducted by the spirit. People were called up to bear their testimonies for the first hour. The children were all called up to sing "I am a Child of God". The last hour Sr. Snow talked to them about their families how they were eternal and what care we need to take with our children and spouses. Then President Snow spoke, followed by Pres. Ounlue the new Area Seventy and currently til July 1st the Cote D'Ivoire Mission President. He is one year older than Holly! President Snow then spoke again and ended the session.